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Food Psych Podcast - about intuitive eating and Health At Every Size
Tip: destroy or throw out scale
Homework: Every day, note 1-3 thing you are grateful for yourself
Orthorexia: fixation with “healthy” eating
Homework: Track unhelpful (e.g. self-critical) thoughts by moving pennies from one pocket to another or by using a tally
Homework: To cultivate your growth mindset, make 2 lists:
List #1: Subjects or skills that you’ve learned
List #2: Subjects or skills that you want to learn
Then circle one or two items from list #2 and figure out how you can start learning.
Homework: Reach out to people in careers you’re interested in to request to job shadow them or an informational interview
Download the free 7 Step Guide For Confidently Reaching Out to Anyone
Note: Informational interviews can be more helpful and less time intensive for everyone involved.
Job shadowing isn’t always possible (e.g. for safety or security reasons) and for many jobs would involve sitting and watching someone work at a computer all day. It may still be useful if a) the person explains what they are doing well and b) to understand the structure of how they work. If working at a computer all day sounds terrible to you, it’ll be more clear to you by watching this work than by hearing a summary of the work.
Confidence Cat Zine: coloring worksheets for confidence, problem-solving, and career decision-making
Calendly or other scheduling tools to make setting up meetings easy on everyone
Tip: Instead of referring to your questions as “stupid questions,” try “basic question.” After all, not knowing something that you have little or no experience with is not a reflection of poor intelligence! And asking questions to fill in your knowledge gaps is a very smart move.
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